I Ruminate Therefore I Violate: The Tainted Love of Anxiously Attached and Jealous Partners

Aracı İyiaydın A., Toplu-Demirtas E., Akcabozan-Kayabol N. B., Fincham F. D.

JOURNAL OF INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE, vol.37, no.9-10, 2022 (SSCI) identifier identifier identifier

  • Publication Type: Article / Article
  • Volume: 37 Issue: 9-10
  • Publication Date: 2022
  • Doi Number: 10.1177/0886260520967743
  • Journal Name: JOURNAL OF INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE
  • Journal Indexes: Social Sciences Citation Index (SSCI), Scopus, Academic Search Premier, Periodicals Index Online, Abstracts in Social Gerontology, Child Development & Adolescent Studies, CINAHL, Criminal Justice Abstracts, EBSCO Education Source, Education Abstracts, EMBASE, Gender Studies Database, MEDLINE, Psycinfo, Social services abstracts, Sociological abstracts, Violence & Abuse Abstracts
  • Keywords: anxious attachment, rumination, jealousy, cyber dating abuse perpetration, psychological dating abuse perpetration, emerging adults, PSYCHOLOGICAL AGGRESSION, EMOTIONAL ABUSE, MULTIDIMENSIONAL MEASURE, GENDER SYMMETRY, VIOLENCE, PERPETRATION, SCALE, VICTIMIZATION, ADOLESCENCE, TECHNOLOGY
  • TED University Affiliated: Yes

Abstract

Anxiously attached individuals worry about the psychological availability of their partners. Their preoccupation with unmet attachment related needs is likely accompanied by ruminative thoughts, feelings of jealousy, and dating abuse perpetration. The purpose of the current study was to investigate the prevalence of gender differences in perpetrating psychological and cyber dating abuse and to explore a hypothesized serial path from anxious attachment, through rumination, and cognitive jealousy to psychological and cyber dating abuse perpetration. The sample consisted of 562 (404 women) Turkish emerging adults. The majority of the sample perpetrated at least one psychological (88.9%) and cyber (68.4%) abusive behavior over the last six months, with women perpetrating more psychological and cyber abuse. We tested a serial mediational model for each type of dating abuse, which indicated that anxious attachment was related to more rumination (brooding), cognitive jealousy, and in turn, to psychological and cyber dating abuse perpetration. We discuss the implications of our study for research, theory, and practice.